A woman described how her fiancé became enraged after she told him she didn’t want to bring his daughter on their honeymoon. The pregnant mother explained on Reddit that her future husband’s 9-year-old daughter was nice, but she didn’t love her. She also stated that allowing the young girl to accompany them on their honeymoon would make her uncomfortable. “When she’s with us, I do my best to make her feel welcome and at home,” the woman wrote.

“Honestly, no matter how hard I try, despite the fact that I have no major bond with her, I don’t feel any real love for her. That’s exactly how I feel. But I am always kind and considerate to her and would never be cruel or mean to her. “She does irritate me on occasion, and honestly, I am relieved on a Sunday evening when she returns home to her mother’s.”

They had agreed to bring their baby because she was still too young to be left with a relative for a week, but she didn’t want his 9-year-old daughter to accompany them. “She’s not my daughter and I just don’t feel fully comfortable when she’s around. “I wouldn’t be able to relax as much,” she added. Reddit users were quick to respond, with one writing, “This story breaks my heart. This nine-year-old will feel excluded from her ‘dad’s family’ for the rest of her life.

However, it is not too late. “Either try harder or call it quits.” “You are clearly drawing a line in the sand where you, your husband, and YOUR child are on one side and his child is on the other,” another said. That is not how a family is blended. “Either don’t go on the trip until it’s just the two of you, or make it a family vacation. If you can’t accept those possibilities, what business do you have marrying someone who has a child who isn’t ‘yours’?”