Someone on Reddit who didn’t want to be named found out that her husband had been cheating on her with her best friend. The woman was six months pregnant when she heard the bad news. Her in-laws were nice and helped her out. A Reddit user who didn’t want to be named shared a sad family story. The woman had been married to her husband since she was 19 and he was 22. They were married for six years and had two kids and one on the way.
But then she learned that her father, who was the only parent she still had, had colon cancer. This made her sad. The treatment wasn’t working for her dad’s cancer, and he only had a few months left to live. She was hopeful that he would get better. His health and memory were getting worse, which was a hard time for her. Her husband was there for her. The man I married has been my rock. I could count on him to hold my hand and help me get through this. This person on Reddit wrote, “He’s been so loving and caring to both my kids and me.”
The mom of three said once more that she didn’t let her worries get in the way of spending time with her kids, even though things were tough for her. She was still there for her kids and really paid attention to them. What the OP said first (OP) was also a great wife who did all the housework she normally did. Both the unknown Reddit user’s husband and her best friend from childhood were there for her.
“I’ve known my best friend since we were babies.” “Her family is like my family, and my family is like hers,” she said. It wasn’a surprise that her best friend was there for her when her dad got cancer. Something did, however, turn their lives upside down. What did OP learn that made her marriage different? One early morning, OP’s husband set off one of his alarms while she was up with her sick 3-year-old.
A few of them were set before he woke up, and she could turn it off. When she put her phone down, she saw a text message from her best friend that said, “How come there hasn’t been a pregnant woman in a huff on my door yet? You must not have told her about us yet.” She wanted to know what was going on so she took his phone and read their chats. She couldn’t believe what she saw. That’s how she found out for four months that her husband had been cheating on her with her childhood best friend. The OP did what she thought was best for her.
Dealing with the terrible cheating. The Reddit user who gave her name said she didn’t know what to do, which is different from some people who would know exactly what to do. She said that after she found out, nothing happened for a few days. To be a good wife, she asked her husband about his day. OP made sure her kids didn’t think anything was wrong too. Even stranger was the fact that neither her husband nor her best friend did anything to make her think they were cheating on her.
While she was going through all of this, the mother couldn’t figure out how she could lose her father and watch her family fall apart. She waited at least one day before telling her husband so that they could have a calm day. The best friend lied to her, and she swore they would never talk again. She didn’t even want to know why her friend had lied to her. She chose, “After today, I will cut her out of my life like she didn’t matter at all.”
A lot of the people who wrote comments were there to support the mom of three. Some people on Reddit told her she was strong, but they made it clear they wouldn’t tell her to stay with her husband and try to make things work. Telling her family the news. Soon after, the unknown Reddit user told her friends what was going on. She said she told her mother-in-law and her ex-best friend’s mother. She just showed photos of the chat between her husband and her ex-best friend. She didn’t try to explain what was going on.
Her in-laws and the family of her ex-best friend were shocked when they heard what they did and quickly came to her aid. They told her they were sorry, hugged her, and cried with her. That’s how mad her wife’s mom was. She was prepared to give up on her son. In fact, the OP said that her mother-in-law made her feel better by saying: That I will always have her, no matter what, and that she doesn’t see herself as having a son, only a daughter.
OP talked to a lawyer about leaving her husband, even though she wasn’t sure if she really wanted to. After that, the lawyer began writing up the terms of her divorce. She told him that the lawyer she hired was good and would fight for her. The lawyer made it clear that the money her father left her would not go to her husband. The OP hasn’t talked to her husband about anything because she wants to build a new life with her children first.
In their comments, everyone who liked the woman also said nice things about her in-laws for being there for her and helping her. People on Reddit were shocked at how well the person dealt with something so painful. Someone who left a message said: The fact that the families of the people who wronged you are fully behind you is touching. People who are family often side with the betrayer instead of the person who was betrayed. Ethics is one of the few things that can be more important than family.
People who really want to know about the story are waiting for her to say how her husband replied to her argument. The OP told me something shockingly new about what happened when she talked to her husband. What happened to Op’s life and marriage after her husband found out she was cheating on him? OP went back and told us more about her story. She began by saying that she had been checked and did not have any STDs or STIs.
To make sure she would be taken care of if she got divorced, her parents and in-laws gave her all of their money and wills.The OP’s mother-in-law and the mother of her ex-best friend both stepped in and showed the cheating couple’s text messages on a slide show. She cried and told her parents she was sorry after the show because her cheating husband tried to attack his woman.
When OP’s husband got home, he saw that his wife had left with their things and the kids’ things. This made him very mad. He lost it and went to her dad’s house to find his wife. He hit the front door with a baseball bat while he was there and was caught. The Reddit user wouldn’t settle down with her husband because her parents were such good examples of how to be honest in a marriage. Jake, OP’s ex-best friend’s brother, was also there for her and helped her.
They played video games together, and he told OP that he liked her since he was younger. OP told me a month later that her father had died a week before she last wrote. She and her husband could get a split of marriage faster than they could get a divorce. OP’s ex-husband saw his kids once a week while being watched. He also went to therapy and learned how to handle his anger. She had a boy and named him after her dad. He was mad that OP wouldn’t let her ex-husband be in the room when she gave birth.
They were both slow to get things done, and he was patient with them while still being helpful. When Jake came home early from the army, he would stay with OP while he looked for his own place.