Throughout your dating life, you will meet a variety of women, some who are more interested in you than others, some who appear to care less, some who seem to care too much, some who will build their lives around you, and some who will make you feel like you have found your world in them.

While pacing through life and meeting all these ladies, you will come across one lady who is radically different from every other woman you have ever met, and she will blow your mind in epic proportions, leaving you wondering why every woman you meet is not more like her. If you have had the privilege of meeting a truly exceptional woman, you will find the following items to be true in her situation.

1. She motivates you to realize your full potential and accomplish amazing things without being demanding. She doesn’t compel you to do this, but she supports you, believes in you, and trusts you enough to know you’ll make the right choices.

2. She doesn’t act like everything revolves around her. She meets her own needs while remaining sensitive and kind to those around her. She expects you to love and respect her, and she is eager to reciprocate. She will not ask you to ignore your own desires in order to make her happy at all times. She accepts you for who you truly are.

3. She does not play childish games just to make you envious. Her actions do not stem from insecurity about your relationship. She knows her worth and does not feel the need to prove it to you or anybody else; it can be felt.

4. She doesn’t require you to be there all the time. She realizes that you are both independent people with lives outside of your relationship, and that this is normal. You both give each other adequate space and time to focus on your friendships, families, and careers.

5. She knows how to care for herself. She never desired a relationship merely so she could rely on someone for physical, financial, and emotional support. No, she was in this to enjoy your company on an equal footing, to split all the bills, and to ensure that no one person in the partnership is overburdened.

6. You’ve never been concerned about taking her to meet your friends or even your parents. You are confident in her ability to carry and show herself well, as well as engage with a wide range of individuals. She is full of affection, which makes it easy for her to engage in meaningful conversations with your parents. Then, while she’s with you and your friends, she can relax and have a nice time.

7. She never hides or feels uncomfortable about her social media presence. She knows how to effectively display herself in front of others, whether in person or on a computer screen.

8. She is not shy in the bedroom. She communicates her requirements honestly; if she likes or dislikes something, she will express it directly using ‘I’ phrases and expressing her own feelings and desires, rather than blaming others. She will convey her desires in a polite but direct manner, making awkward sexual situations a thing of the past.

She does not allow the intimacy or passion in your relationship to remain hidden and unspoken. She’s grown enough to embrace it as a fully normal and healthy part of your relationship, one that maintains the spark and builds a deeper love between the two of you.

9. She has strong and kind ideas on practically every subject, and she will never hold back from expressing them in order to avoid fights or keep everyone pleased. She’s a strong woman who openly provides valuable information without pressuring others to agree with her. This ability allows her to inspire everyone around her, since she speaks from the heart. She is open to arguments and disagreements and can hear both sides of a topic.

10. If you have a quarrel or a disagreement, she will not try to end the relationship. Rather, she employs nonviolent communication to understand your needs and expresses her own in a friendly and non-critical manner. She values peace over being right all the time, and she isn’t afraid to interrupt a conversation until both of you can calm down and resume at a more appropriate time.

11. She is certain of her purpose in life. She has spent time understanding her own heart and psychology. When she sets a goal, you can be confident that she will give it her best and will not be deterred by any hurdles that arise.