A man fears his enraged mother may have ruined his wife’s $9,000 gender reveal party by triggering a fire alarm just before they could reveal the baby’s gender. Wesley, one of the duo behind the TikTok account @candacenysm, decided to break the beans on camera, giving his fans the full scoop on the issue.The TikToker begins his video by stating that his wife is incredibly unhappy with his mother for “ruining” their $9,000 gender reveal.
He says why this gender reveal was so important for both him and his wife: when they had their first kid, he was just starting out in his career and didn’t have much money to spend on celebrations. However, with their second child on the way, they saw it as an opportunity to go all out and host a grandiose gender reveal party. He lavishes adulation on his significant other, calling her “the best mom in the world,”
and professes his desire to throw her the most spectacular gender reveal party ever.He writes that his wife, Candace, was in charge of preparing the party and that he was willing to foot the money for the entire event. Wesley notes that while Candace’s family resides out of state and would be unable to attend the gender reveal, they decided it would be appropriate to include them in the preparation process.
Candace and her sisters had already taken the lead in organizing everything. Following this decision, Wesley’s mother offered to assist prepare the gender reveal. Candace respectfully rejected, expressing gratitude while claiming that she and her sisters had everything under control. At this time, Wesley suspects his mother has begun to take offense.
In a series of text messages, she inquired about her role in preparing the gender reveal, even wondering if she would be reimbursed for her efforts.
«Why should you get paid to help?» Candace questioned Wesley’s mother. In answer, his mother reacted fiercely, “I am not your… maid.” Wesley explains that he was first unaware of the text exchange.
He says he was in another room when Candace was messaging his mother and was horrified to see her enter the room in tears.«There is a grand total of zero people who will ever cuss out my wife,» Wesley says to the camera. He insists that no one in the world has the right to mistreat his significant other. In a brief “10 seconds long” phone call, he made his position known to his mother.
Wesley informed her that she was no longer allowed at the gender reveal party and had no power to speak to his wife in such a manner. Following the phone call, Wesley decided to temporarily “block” his mother until the gender reveal was over.He decided it was best to let cooler heads prevail and prevent his mother from attending the celebration.
Despite this, his mother contacted him multiple times, apologizing for her conduct and urging him to attend the celebration. Wesley kindly reminded her every time she called that she had crossed a line and would not be permitted to attend. Even on the day of the party, she contacted, apologizing for her actions and expressing her wish to attend.
However, when Wesley insisted she couldn’t come, she reluctantly agreed, stating, “Okay, I have no choice then,” which sounded ominous to him.Guests were having fun, snacking on food and enjoying the bouncy house set up for the youngsters. As the gender reveal approached, Wesley’s wife, proving her forgiveness, proposed inviting his mother over.
Wesley texted his mother, who initially agreed to come but did not arrive inside the specified time range. Instead, when the countdown began, a fire alarm went out, sparking mayhem as everyone exited the premises. Wesley found his mother outside, standing alone and serene. Her expression heightened suspicions that she was complicit.His wife, noting his mother’s manner, suspected her complicity and encouraged Wesley to approach her.
Despite his mother’s denial, Wesley spotted her wet pant legs, which indicated she had been indoors when the sprinklers went off. In light of these incidents, Wesley’s wife suggested severing relations with his mother for good. Given the evidence, Wesley believed his mother could have tripped the alarm, as did many TikTok users who heard his story. However, several condemned the party’s exorbitant spending.
@candacenysm Do you think she did it or no? 😅#storytime #momsoftiktok #motherhood #motherinlaw #mother #funny ♬ original sound – Candace & Wesley