If you are doing these things, you are unfaithful to your partner.  When it comes to being unfaithful. However, it doesn’t always mean that. There are many things that someone could do, which would be considered, as being unfaithful and some of them might sh0ck you!

1. White lies. A little white lie won’t hurt, can it? The basic answer is yes: if you have a motivation to lie about something, you are disloyal to your spouse. A marriage should always have an open and honest discussion; introducing lies, even if they are minor, is a recipe for disaster. The foundations of a marriage are founded on trust, and the only sure way to lose trust is to get caught lying.

2. Flirting With Intention. Flirting with intention when married is never good. Even if you do not pursue the person you are flirting with, you have the intention, which is still wrong. Consider how your spouse would react if they found out about your intentions, as well as how you would react if the opposite happened.

3. Dressing to impress. If you dress up for your own self-esteem, that’s OK; if you dress to impress someone else, that’s unfaithful to your marriage. As a married person, you should not expect people to want you.

4. Lying About Who You Are With. If you are spending time with someone you know your spouse dislikes or would dislike if they knew about them, you should not lie about it, especially if nothing is going on. If your spouse discovers that you have been lying, they will not think that the meetings were innocent and will accuse you of infidelity. If you are aware that the person you are with will generate disagreements with your spouse, you should really assess the value of visiting the individual in issue.

5. Not disclosing that you are married. If you actively conceal your marital status, you should consider why you did so and what your aims are. If you find yourself disguising the fact that you are married, it is likely that you intend to pursue the individual in question, which is not acceptable.