The number of guys who have a “side chick” has increased dramatically in recent years. There are songs, movies, and even books about being the other woman, which is extremely problematic. You’d think men would “keep it 100” and tell you if they weren’t ready to be in a relationship with just one person (or if he was already dating someone when you met).
Instead, they’ve become much more sophisticated and devious in their strategies, and they know how to keep their girlfriends and side pieces separate. Also, having a side chick is no longer a shame for some women, giving males even more reason to have one. Here are several symptoms that he is in a relationship with someone else.1. You have lower expectations.
You are impressed when he does anything as simple as wish you good night. That is a problem! You should have higher standards than that, and you would if you weren’t his side woman. However, he has set the bar extremely low. Because of this, all he needs to do is respond to your SMS, and you will experience butterflies. 2. He leaves immediately after s_ex.
He does not stay and converse after sex. And there is no snuggling. When he’s finished, he gets dressed and goes without hesitation. Do you want to know why he is in such a rush? Two possibilities. Either he needs to return to his partner or he does not want to spend the evening with you. Which is worse? 3. You only see him at night.
Do you only see him once the sun has gone down? That’s a pretty apparent indication you’re his side chick. If he genuinely liked you, he’d make time for you during the day. Whether it was taking you to brunch on Sunday or stopping by a farmer’s market. Your meetings would not be limited to after-hours gatherings. 4. He keeps you satisfied with the bare minimum.
He understands that in order for you to stay with him, you must remain interested. That is why he showers you with compliments and flashes his million-dollar smile. The moment you begin to distance yourself, he becomes fascinated. He understands how women think and isn’t hesitant to use this knowledge to influence you.5. He is stingy with money. You’ve been “seeing” each other for a while, and he’s spent exactly zero dollars on you.
That makes sense. Guys with side chicks frequently don’t have enough money to treat all of their females. Unfortunately, you did not make the cut. He needs to cut costs somewhere, which is why you’re always the one paying for Postmates. 6. He does not take you on dates. You don’t get “date nights,” but “after-thought nights.” He only hangs out with you when his plans break through, which is rare given his busy schedule. What is the worst part?
He has no shame! He calls you at 10 p.m. and begs you to “come over” without apologizing for the late call. Disrespect at its finest. 7. He avoids any ‘boyfriend’ chores.
He refuses to accompany you to weddings and won’t attend your friends’ dinner parties. He claims he likes you, but his actions speak louder than words. If he liked you, he’d treat you like a boyfriend, not a stranger you met on the street.