Sometimes when we think we’re done with an ex, they come back with a strange request. In this case, our reader’s ex-boyfriend wanted her to drop her married name all of a sudden because his new girlfriend doesn’t like it.Thank you for getting in touch! We’re sorry to hear what you’ve been through. There are some things we can tell you that might help you.A year ago, we got a divorce, and a few months later, my ex-husband met someone.

After a messy split, we stopped talking to each other at all.His recent message to me out of the blue said, “I’m getting married soon, and my fiancée doesn’t like your maiden name. Please take it back.”Thank you for getting in touch! We’re sorry to hear what you’ve been through. There are some things we can tell you that might help you.If your ex keeps telling you that you need to change your name, you might want to talk to a lawyer.

A lawyer can help you figure out what your choices are and what rights you have. If the problem gets worse or starts to bother you, write down everything that happened. This could help you if you need to do more to keep yourself safe.If you ever feel threatened or dangerous, don’t be afraid to call the police or get help from groups that help people who have been harassed or abused.

Also, don’t let what your ex-girlfriend does or what she thinks about you affect how you feel about yourself. Focus on your own health and happiness instead of getting upset about what’s going on with them. If it’s not what you want, don’t feel like you have to do what they want. Stand your ground and be strong about your choice. Trust your gut if something doesn’t seem right or makes you feel bad about the situation.

Your limits and how you feel are important. The fiancée of your ex-husband may be trying to see how you respond. Don’t talk to her or respond to what she says; it will only make things worse. You are not to blame for the decisions your ex-husband made or for his fiancée’s worries. If you want to, you can keep your married name.

Some people see anger as a sign of love, but that’s not always the case. This article’s reader chose to see how jealous her husband was because she was interested or maybe even a little annoyed. She had no idea that what she found would change their marriage for good.