Although dating a married man can be exciting, these relationships are rarely successful. What begins as a pleasant distraction might quickly evolve into emotional trauma for you and your spouse. What follows is a bitter divorce and a grieving family. Even if your married partner divorces their spouse, resentment and distrust from the past may ruin your relationship.

Consider this: You are seeing a married man who is cheating on his wife. What happens when you date a married man?1. You’ll never be the top priority.
A married man has a wife and children. He still has children, despite claims that he no longer loves his wife. Those children are his top priority, particularly if they are small. He will always prioritize his family’s needs over yours.

2. He’ll never see your family or friends. It’s usually a memorable occasion when the person you’re dating finally meets a close friend or family member. After all, this is the person you’ve been talking about for years, and it’s time for the special person in your life to meet him. 3. He probably won’t leave his marriage. Few married men leave their wives for their girlfriends. The ugly fact is this: You are unlikely to be an exception to the rule. Divorce is a huge issue. It’s a mess. And if he has children, their mental well-being is his top priority.

4. You could be accused of wrecking a family. If the wife discovers what occurred between you and your husband, their marriage may be finished. Your wife and children are likely to blame you for ruining their marriage. This will do significant harm, almost like an attack on your character and value as a person. This will undoubtedly have an impact on everyone, regardless of their background.

5. You’ll be waiting for quite a while. The question isn’t whether he’ll leave his wife for you; it’s whether you want to wait to find out. There are seven billion individuals on this earth. Is it truly worth waiting for this guy? What about his ethics and morality? Is he cheating on his wife? What’s stopping him from doing the same thing to you?

6. You are missing the opportunity to meet a single man. There are no two ways. He is unlikely to leave his wife for you, as this would make you another woman. While most women would tell you that they would never allow themselves to be another woman, a surprising proportion of women believe he will change his mind about his wife.

7. He will not help you when you need it. The benefit of being in a committed relationship is that when things are tough, you can rely on your partner for assistance. However, with children and a wife to care for, this married man is unlikely to be able to provide you with full assistance. He cannot always be there for you. He probably sees you sporadically as it is.

8. You are short-term. As long as you’re deemed “Ϝᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴀɴ ᴀɓɓᴀɪʀ,” I’m sad to tell that it probably won’t stay long. A real kicker? The longer the affair lasts, the less probable he is to divorce his marriage to be with you. 9. Hiding is tiresome. Having to keep your relationship a secret might lower your self-esteem and cause you to lose out on the positive aspects of a relationship. Walking freely and radiantly around the globe together can fill you with the light of life.