1. Establish eye contact. The eyes show your partner’s true feelings about you. If your partner thinks you’re special, you’ll get a lot of eye contact, you’ll be stared at because you’re the center of attention, you’ll be looked at, desired, attractive, and sought after, and there’ll be this fire, this adoring look. However, if your spouse has grown too comfortable with you, is bored with you, or feels superior to you, you will receive a condescending glance. You can tell your lover is upset at you just by looking in their eyes.

2. Tone of voice Pay attention to how your lover says ‘I love you’. How does your partner communicate with you? in a severe way? Does your partner talk to or at you? Can you sense resentment? Or is the tone warm, tranquil, and non-combative? No matter how hard we try to hide it, our voices reflect how we feel about someone.

3. Touch. When you have strong affections for someone, you tend to get sensitive. Humans have touch sensations since it is part of how we interact. When your spouse feels close to you, he or she will not keep his or her hands away from you. You will be touched at the elbow, waist, hands, and fingers.

4. How much time do they spend with you If your lover cares truly about you, they will want to spend time with you. However, if your partner is uninterested in you, weary of you, or finds you disagreeable, they will avoid you or even make excuses not to be with you.

5. The circumstance in which your partner leaves you. When your spouse is concerned about you, he or she will not abandon you when you are ill. They will not hang up the phone when your heart is crushed, will not leave the house while you are hurting, and will not leave your company until you feel better. But a partner who no longer cares about you will not listen to your feelings; they will hang up the phone while you cry, they will end the day abandoning you in your sorrow, and they will leave the house with your heart crushed and unattended.

6. How much value your partner places on your views. A partner who values you will seek out your opinions on matters, rather than pushing you away or silencing you. 7. The Quality of the Kiss You can’t fake a kiss. A kiss will reveal whether things between you two have altered or everything is fine.

8. How are you treated during storms? Your partner’s words and actions when things go rough, when you seek for help, when you do wrong, when you do something embarrassing, when the world is against you, or when you hit rock bottom best indicate your place in their heart. Fake friends, like fake partners, will forsake you when things go bad.