Forcing love sounds ridiculous, but there are several reasons why a man can be pretending love. Maybe he thinks you’re terrific and should be romantically interested in you, but he isn’t. Perhaps he is yearning to be in a relationship. The strange thing is that sometimes men (or women) may not aware they are forcing themselves to love someone.

However, regardless of the rationale, the long-term consequences can be negative. While a marriage may go through ups and downs and periods of just clinging on, a relationship in its early stages should not have to suffer if it is simply not right. Here are six simple symptoms that he may be pressuring himself into a relationship with you.

1. He asks if you want to take a break. Sometimes men are simply terrified of hurting your feelings and breaking your heart. That is why some of them find this work impossible. If he asks this question, he simply wants to make it appear that you are the one who wants to end the relationship. 2. You’re the one who initiates everything. In a good and strong relationship where people truly love each other, both partners must work on their connection. If you are the only one who makes every effort to improve your relationship, it is time to say goodbye to your partner.

3. He avoids difficult topics. NOT TO MAKE YOU MAD. When people decide to get together, they know that there may be some uncomfortable conversations. It is part of a long-term relationship that allows people to get to know one other better and maintain a happy partnership. If he avoids such conversations, it could indicate that he does not comprehend their importance and does not consider your shared future.

4. When you met, he was desperate to be in a relationship. Some folks cannot imagine anything worse than being alone. If he is one of these guys and you begin a romantic connection, you have very limited chance of success. It’s more likely that he simply does not want to be alone and does not truly love you.

5. HE TRY TO CHANGE NORMAL THINGS ABOUT YOU. When we truly love someone, we accept them just as they are. If he can’t stand some of your behaviors or wants to modify something in your life or look, you should speak with him. It could signal that he simply does not love you.

6. He’s unusually emotional. If you were friends before starting a romantic connection and his behavior has changed dramatically, there may be a problem. However, if you have any doubts about his attitude toward you, it is best to discuss them with him rather than suffer from your own thoughts. There could be another problem unrelated to your relationship.