1. Determine why he’s flirting with other women. Has he always behaved like this? If that’s the case, convincing him to change will be difficult. Was it the flirting that drew you two together? Is there a chance it will bring someone else into his life? If he is faithful and flirting comes naturally to him, attempt to adjust. When he realizes that you have no problem with it and remain loyal and loving, he may try to change your behavior.

But if his flirtation is directed at a specific person, it may jeopardize his relationship with you. Instead of nagging or blaming, try to talk sense into him. Do not make him feel obligated to cease flirting with others immediately. It could cause him to lose interest in you.

2. Flirt with him. Try flirting with him; he may be flirting with others since he no longer has the opportunity to do so with you. This is a major mistake that people make in relationships. They cease flirting as soon as they realize the other person is theirs. So start flirting with him again, and don’t nag him about flirting with others when you can’t do it for him.

3. Be honest with him. Be honest with your spouse about how it feels to see them flirt with other people. He may alter on his own.