1. He shows his true self in front of you. When you’re together, there are no pretenses or facades. He may have to wear a thousand different masks to interact with the outer world, but with you, he is nothing but his own self. He has found his perfect haven in you, where he no longer needs to hide his imperfections. With you, he has discovered comfort in his own skin.

2. He accepts you for who you are and ensures you feel the same way. You will never feel as if every movement you make is being scrutinized by his keen eye. He will never ask you to change because he does not see you as something that requires improving. According to a 2021 study, women rely on either genuine or inflated spouse acceptance to compensate for self-doubt. That being said, he will not stand by and watch you make a fool of yourself, and will intervene when he believes you might use some assistance.

3. He keeps no secrets. There are no secrets or skeletons in the closet when it comes to him. He feels comfortable enough with you to not hide anything. He also respects you enough not to cause you any trouble over such issues. He believes you and the link you share with him will disclose everything about him, good and bad. A 2015 study found that “anxiety and avoidance were positively associated with keeping a secret from a romantic partner,” so if he’s calm and engaged, he’s probably not hiding anything.

4. His deeds say more than his words. He loves you and makes sure you know it. He is very open about his feelings for you. There are no subtle hints to keep you interested in him. His words and actions go above and beyond to make you feel like the queen of his kingdom. He doesn’t want or require you to be continually on edge just so he can feel strong. He would never wish to create you fear about your relationships as a result of his behavior.

5. He’s concerned about your convenience. If he notices you are exhausted after a hard day, he will offer to cook the food even though it was your time that night. If he knows you need anything, he will try to grab it from the supermarket so you don’t have to go too far. He will handle minor issues with ease. He aims to make your life as simple as possible. This is part of emotional work in a relationship and is a crucial component in relationship health, according to a 2019 study.

6. He doesn’t hesitate to provide financial information. Finance is typically a very sensitive subject, and people keep their profits and losses to themselves. But if he wants to establish a future with you, he will give his financial information, both past and present, because he understands it isn’t just about him. Sharing financial details is a strong indication that someone wants to share their future with you. As a result, he is not scared of your judgment or reprimands since he understands that, in the end, it is not just his money.

7. He understands your preferences. The world seems to have lost the true motive behind gift-giving. It is never about the most expensive or flashy package, but about the most thoughtful. When hunting for a gift for you, he considers your wants and preferences. He isn’t even concerned about the event. If he sees something you want or need, he will get it for you, even if it’s four months till Christmas. Even you will be shocked at how he seems to recall the smallest details of your life and brings you items that are more useful and practical than attractive and flashy.

8. His priorities are in order. When it comes to gifts, he understands that the best gift you can give is your time. As a result, you will notice him devoting time to you and treating you as a priority. It doesn’t mean he’ll ignore his other obligations. He will just manage his time such that you never feel forgotten or overlooked. A research in Interpersonal Communication found that making time commitments is a watershed moment in a romantic relationship.