I completed an internship in the maternity unit as a student when I was younger, caring for premature babies. When they grew up, many moved to orphanages, where they were replaced by other premature infants. I had a pretty severe reaction to this at first. After all, they are only premature for a short time before becoming completely typical youngsters. I eventually tried to figure out why they were abandoned.

I couldn’t see the mothers who had already made such a choice. However, I witnessed several mothers who were on the verge of making such a horrible decision. They were in a communal room with other women who were in childbirth. Many of them were exhausted after many hours of contractions and difficult nights, but many of them radiated happiness. Many of them remained at the department for several days. I once observed a horrifying incident. When her kid was rushed to intensive care and died, the new mother did not react.

I swear I heard her breathe a sigh of relief. This could be the effect of postpartum depression, but I disagree. These grown-up children, I suppose, are immature mothers. Many of them are unable to care for themselves, and here is a youngster. Their parents are to blame for their immaturity, not them. These are the ramifications of “greenhouse children.” They were unprepared for adulthood. Don’t be surprised if your daughter abandons a child if you constantly spoil her and don’t expose her to the real world.