A 28-year-old lady has turned to Reddit for guidance on her completely insane family situation. She is the mother of an 11-month-old child, and one day she and her husband called a nanny to look after their little one. It turned out that the nanny was looking after both their daughter and the woman’s husband. At least this is what the new mother felt after seeing some really suggestive images of the nanny among her husband’s possessions.The woman began her narrative by stating that she was new to Reddit, but her younger sister suggested she write to this site.
She is 28, her daughter, Cassie, is 11 months old, and her husband, Alex, is 35. The woman had her daughter and then went back to work (as a psychologist), since she could never be a SAHM. She is actually French but lives in the United States. So, after a traumatic birth, when she returned at four months, the family began looking for a nanny to care after Cassie while the woman and her husband Alex worked.
They noticed a few girls, but then one of Alex’s coworkers mentioned his daughter, who had dropped out of college. She was 20 years old and went by Liv.The woman continues with her story, stating that everything went smoothly except for one thing. The woman admits she noticed Liv was quite devoted to Cassie, but she dismissed it as a good friendship between the two.
The nanny also liked Alex; it was clear she had a crush on him, since she was constantly batting her eyelids and laughing. The creator of the message claims she thought it amusing since she is confident in herself. Alex would always laugh it off with her. But then, on Thursday night, he requested his wife to do something on his phone as he bathed Cassie, and she noticed some images from Liv pop up.
When the woman looked at them, they were blatantly suggestive; she was dressed in lingerie and posed provocatively. The woman reviewed her history and discovered that she had been sending these for quite some time.The woman said that Alex never answered, although the texts may have been deleted. When she asked, he became defensive and urged her to quit playing her psychiatrist tricks on him.
She was upset with his non-answers, which resulted in a shouting match that woke Cassie. So the woman grabbed him a bag and shoved him out. She wrote, “I informed him he wasn’t welcome back until I got answers. I’m thinking about taking Cassie back to France to spend some time with my family. His mother and friends have been blowing up my phone, accusing me of being too harsh, even though the texts were innocent.
Nonetheless, I feel mistreated, and that is unacceptable to me.So, after going to France to see her parents right after what happened, the woman agreed with her family that she needed to return to France with her daughter. Her family offered to assist her with moving and legal matters. When she returned to the United States, she notified her ex fiancé (whom she initially referred to as a husband) that there would be no compromise or discussion about her next moves.
They were able to complete the transfer within the next two months and signed an agreement stating that she was the primary custodian of their kid and made the majority of her decisions. Alex expected his partner to become more empathetic and let him back in once they arrived in France. However, the woman had made up her mind and just let him go.