We’ve all been cheated, and we all know someone who is now being cheated on. But we say nothing about it. We decided not to tell them. Why? Is it because we are afraid of being in the middle? Or is it because we are afraid that if we tell that person, they would not believe it, making us look like a jealous a-hole? Cheating is not the same for men and women.

Women cheat because they are missing something in their relationships; they do not feel loved or respected, so they seek it from another man. It’s all about feeling, and a happy female rarely strays. However, this is not the case with men; happy guys frequently stray. Men cheat simply because they can. They know we won’t do anything about it. guys are not missing anything in their relationship, and most of the time guys genuinely adore their women.

But it’s only about sex. They don’t care about the girls they have relationships with; they simply cheat because they can. Their world does not halt, they do not feel guilty about it, and they surely do not think differently of you. Their lives goes on as if nothing occurred. They have an on/off cheater switch for this. They can be so deceiving, but they can return to being that loving lover once the filthy deed is done.

But don’t get things twisted. Women are not entirely innocent in this regard. It takes two to tango, honey! If these “side chicks” had more self-esteem, men would be unable to cheat; it would not even be an option for them. But there will always be women out there who are willing to play the sidekick and have no qualms about it. The Successful Cheater: You can be in a “happy” relationship right now, but your partner has other lovers.

Congratulations, you have been successfully cheated. But what are some of the signs? Hidden Facebook Relationship Status. Yes, you’re probably in the majority of their images, so you believe this is fine, but it’s easy to tell someone, “Oh, that’s just my ex, I haven’t gotten to delete those old photos yet.” A laundry list of sexual interactions before you.

Please don’t try to convince me that your once-promiscuous spouse has changed his ways and is now just loyal to you. A person who will sleep with anything with a pulse usually lacks morals. Do not believe that they can alter in a millisecond. Because they probably can’t. They will continue to do this behind your back. Random names of the same gender in their contacts.

For example, your cheating partner will not add his new fling “Rachel” to his contacts. He’ll put her under the name “Bob from work” and call it a day. Meanwhile, he doesn’t know Bob and doesn’t have a job. I mean, come on. Wherever they go, their phone follows them. If they notice someone behind your back, they will not leave their phone alone with you.

So, the next time your girlfriend’s phone calls and she breaks through the plate glass in the shower to answer it before you do, there you have it. If your partner spends more time with their friends than with you, there is a significant likelihood they are up to something. If they love you and are faithful to you, they want to spend as much time with you as possible.

Everyone you know usually says something nasty about them. They probably know something you don’t. Instead of telling you the truth, they skirt around the issue because they know you won’t believe it if it came down to it. Respect is at the heart of this problem. Bottom line: cheating shows a lack of regard for their mate. Women and men who are prepared to be the “side piece” lack self-respect. Instead than demanding to be the ONLY one, they accept being the OTHER one.

Then there are many who have no idea what is going on behind their backs because they choose to disregard the clues and believe that “ignorance is bliss.” But, is ignorance bliss? Maybe if we all had some old-fashioned respect for ourselves and one other, this would not be such a big deal.