1. You mention your ex. Talking about your ex, or worse, your exes, is a significant turnoff for most guys. Leave the past behind and focus on the present moment as well as what the future holds; this will make you and your new spouse happy.

2. You’re “too easy”. Guys are conquerors at heart, and being “too easy” can be a huge turnoff. And I am not just talking about “physicality”. Being “too easy” in numerous areas is undesirable for a lady, nor is it desirable to be “too hard to get”. You understand what I mean, Naah! Just find your equilibrium, but don’t be too easy; let your lover to conquer your heart.

3. Too desperate for love. Guys dislike girls who are needy for love and “desperate” to be “in a relationship”. Show him that you are a happy person right now, that you are happy in your own company (called “self-love”) as well as in his presence, and he will want to give you all the love in the world!

4. Talking excessively. Although guys have a lot to offer and chat about, girls who talk too much rarely get a second date. That’s because excessive talkativeness is undoubtedly repellent. So maintain a balance throughout the debate. Similar to how a tennis ball is passed from one person to another, talking with your boyfriend allows him to share his thoughts with you.