Do you ever feel as if you might disappear and your man would not notice? Here’s how to get him to worry about losing you and stop taking you for granted.1. Discuss the future without him. Make it appear as if he is not a given while discussing any upcoming events. This does not have to include discussing your long-term life intentions. It might be as simple as discussing a road trip or weekend arrangements without him present. All you need to do is say “I” rather than “we.” It’s a small change, but most guys should notice it. He will notice it, believe me.
2. Reduce texting. Most of the ladies are constantly texting. However, regular texting lays all of your cards on the table and demonstrates your desire and commitment. If you reduce your texting frequency and aren’t usually the first to reach out, he’ll wonder why. It could force him to take a more active role in the relationship. It may also make him believe that you have more important things to do than talk to him.
3. Flirt with other males. This is a dangerous area since you could lose your man if you go overboard, but as long as you know where the line is and don’t cross it, flirting with others will make him envious. Don’t go overboard, but simply looking at an attractive guy and smiling can be highly powerful. Flirting with someone else will accomplish far more than making your partner jealous. He will recognize that you had the option of choosing any of the others, but you chose him, thus he must choose you.
Another attractive man poses a threat to your man, especially if he flirts back. Perhaps you don’t need to look for such a man. As long as he sees someone else hitting on you, he will understand you can leave him. He needs to understand that he does not own you and that you can be with someone else, perhaps even someone who will treat you better than he does. If you’re in a serious relationship, don’t flirt with other males. Just once will be enough for him to understand the message and be concerned about losing you.
4. Glamorize your appearance. When in a relationship, it is normal for people to become so comfortable that their appearance fades. If this resonates with you, it’s time to start glamourizing your appearance both with and without him. So dress carefully and look your best; he’ll notice if other men are paying more attention to you. That will remind him that other men think you appealing.
It’s critical for you to look better and stand out, and he’ll wonder whether you’re doing so to appeal to other men. Also, this will instill some worry that someone else will takeover you. 5. Be willing to walk away. You must be willing to walk away from someone or something that isn’t working. You can’t lie to yourself or convince yourself that even if he’s not what you’re searching for, he’ll change or things will improve.
Believe me, they will not, and they will only worsen. Furthermore, in order for him to truly appreciate you, he must first confront his fear of loss, which is essentially the dread of losing you. This fear will be amplified if you’re feeling your best, because this form of fear is centered in love. When you really like someone, you want them to understand how valuable and important the relationship is, and you want to know that your feelings are reciprocated, so you treat them with as much affection and consideration as possible, and that is exactly how you should be treated in return; don’t settle for anything less.
6. Make New Friends. A good man will usually become comfortable with your friends. But if you start developing new ones, he may begin to believe that he is losing you. Perhaps one of your new pals is a guy who will introduce you to a new guy. More than anything, it represents a significant transformation in your life. That can give a guy the impression that you’re transitioning to a new phase of your life. That’s enough to make him believe he might lose you.
7. Appear bored as he speaks. This is a bit nasty and indicative of a bad woman. However, it will cause him to reconsider his position with you. If you appear indifferent when he tells you a tale or discusses his day, he will begin to question if he is good enough for you (or if you are going off him). He may not suspect that you want to abandon him for someone else, but he will become concerned that something is wrong.