1. He will not let you know where he lives. Always want you to meet him at a hotel. Any man who truly loves you will not hesitate to take you home, at least so you know where he is staying, since he believes the relationship will work out well for both of you. A married man will not take you to his house because he does not want his wife to see you and realize he is cheating on her.

2. He timed your calls. If you are unable to reach him at certain times of the day or if he makes excuses such as being constantly busy when he returns home at night, you may be dealing with a problem. Unlike single boyfriends, with whom you may talk late into the night or even all night, you will only be able to speak to him during the day, and when he returns home, he either says he likes to chat or is always too sleepy for a conversation. If this has been going on for too long, it could be a sign that he is constantly returning home to his family, with you serving as a supporting cast member.

3. He’ll hide his employment for you. When you query your partner about the nature of his job and he starts playing tricks or covering it up with another topic, you should know you’re seeing a married man. He doesn’t want to tell you who he is and what he does for a career because he knows there is no future with you.

4. He spends generously. It takes a comfortable married guy to support another woman after his family, and it is easier for him to utilize his income to compensate for other immaterial things he may be unable to provide you with. This is not to argue that single men cannot afford to buy you expensive items, but a young unmarried man with a solid source of income would rather create future financial plans than get you a luxury vehicle.

If your partner ignores your calls or cannot meet you at particular times, you may be led to feel that he is seeing someone else or that he dislikes you. But why make you feel that way when a lavish lifestyle might make you forget your problems and sorrows? Consider why a man of his age who can buy all he needs has not married and is not in a hurry to put a ring on your fingers.

5. A married man will not accompany you to any occasion. He will not go with you to any event where his family and friends will be present, but he will take you to nightclubs with some of his friends who share his lifestyle because he does not value you, and he can easily tell his wife that he has been in traffic for hours, which is why he is coming home late from work.

6. He never uses social media. It’s logical that a married man wouldn’t want you to have his Facebook or other social media account information because it could break his cover. You’ll hear reasons like, “I only use WhatsApp; I’m too busy to use other social media,” yet even on WhatsApp, his read receipt is always off, and you’ll never see him write anything related on his status.

This could indicate that he is hiding something or is not who he claims to be, and you could be a “side chick.” In some extremely rare circumstances, he may have a social media presence but will never respond on your posts, photos, or even flaunt you on it for obvious reasons. 7. He is just interested in making love with you.
When you don’t bother to see your parents for the marriage ceremony.

Then understand that you are dating someone else’s husband, and believe me, he will not leave his wife because of you. Yes, he has been cheating on her with you, but he does not love you as much as his wife. 8. He never discusses commitment. He avoids discussing the future or marital prospects when you are together. When you finally get him to talk, he gives the impression that you are rushing.

He is constantly saying “let’s see how it goes,” “may God see us through,” and “hopefully.” However, this character is not limited to married men; some unmarried men behave similarly, but if this coincides with other symptoms described above, you should use caution.