1. Self-deprecate. Consistently negative self-talk can lead to a man believing these bad thoughts.And, worse, so could you. A confident woman is significantly more attractive than one who does not value herself—so keep your self-talk pleasant and enthusiastic.

2. Doubt yourself. It’s perfectly fine to be unsure of anything, but it becomes less acceptable when we significantly alter our views (or, conversely, can’t make up our minds) about life’s most essential matters. Don’t make rushed conclusions; instead, take the time you need to think things through.

However, make sure your reasoning is detailed and thoughtful so you don’t change your mind later. And don’t be hesitant to stand by your decision, even if the odds are stacked against you. Men always admire a decisive, confident lady.

3. Lose your temper. Losing your temper comes unexpectedly, prematurely, and frequently before you understand all sides of the situation. Next time you’re on the verge of losing it, stop taking action and give yourself a few moments to gather your thoughts (or even sleep on it) before jumping to any conclusions.

4. Be too jealous. It’s okay to be a little envious of your man on occasion, but we must exercise caution and not let our jealously over trivial matters to spin out of hand, as it may become a cancer in a relationship over time.

The more you express your envy, the more your husband will take precautions to avoid unnecessary conflict from you, and that is not the type of marriage you want to be in. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and when we trust our husbands, we are expressing our love and support in the greatest way imaginable.

5. Criticize his manhood. So, your man may not be the most handy around the house, or he may not be particularly athletic. That does not imply you should remind him of these things. In fact, seemingly innocent jokes or statements of this sort can drastically degrade a man’s masculinity. Our words have tremendous power, and gentle ones can have a fantastic long-term impact on a marriage.

6. Draw comparisons. It is unhealthy and counterproductive to make comparisons to other individuals and relationships. This can create false expectations. When we point out our differences, particularly with our husbands, it might undermine their confidence and confuse them.